DR. MIKE AYERS
Helping you achieve more presence, deeper purpose and greater impact with your kids
Mike is a college professor, author and sought-after speaker whose calling is to equip and encourage fathers in fulfilling the most important role in their lives. Known for his warmth, wisdom and transparency, Mike offers hope for men with children of all ages.
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THE FATHER FRIEND MODEL
From Crib through College—
All The Tools You Need To Be Your Child's Father-Friend
The Father Friend Model© identifies four stages in the father-child relationship: Leader, Coach, Mentor, and Father-Friend. Each stage reflects your child’s changing developmental needs and shows you how to adjust your role while remaining present, purposeful, and connected from childhood through adulthood.
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I'm the dad of three incredible kids — I've walked with them from diapers, through college, to marriage and now kids of their own. Like so many dads, I grew up without a healthy example of fatherhood. When my kids were born, I realized I was winging it, hoping love and good intentions would be enough. So I became a student, diving into research and parenting books, meeting with fathers, and began to parent with intention.
My PhD explored identity formation in children and adolescents, and 25 years of pastoral ministry put me alongside hundreds of families watching dads wrestle with the same quiet fear: Am I doing enough? I know that fear. And it's exactly why I created Father Friend.
The most important voice your kids will ever hear is yours. Let me help you find it.
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Father Friend: How Intentional Dads Lean In, Lead Well and Love Big at Every Stage
Get the book that shares the purpose, four-stage developmental model, and essential skills of intentional fatherhood!
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How Mike Can Help You:
COACHING
Mike offers coaching for men in parenting, leadership and life management — you'll get personal access, supportive feedback, and strategic solutions.
INVITE MIKE TO SPEAK
Schedule Mike to speak to your group, train parents or be a guest on your podcast. Your audience will walk away with practical advice and encouragement.
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Mike leads exclusive webinars, discounts, subscriber-only content and training for men like you who are members of this community. Sign up now to be included.
"Inspiring"
"Mike has a unique ability to motivate and inspire people to be a reflection of who they are as individuals. I can say he makes his listeners feel valued and respected. His teaching has guided me for almost two decades."
Darwin Pennye
Baseball Scout, Kansas City Royals
"A Perfect Match"
"His teaching, friendship and mentoring were the perfect match for someone with my drive to succeed as a dad. I feel lucky to have been a part of his leadership. Learning from Mike has allowed me to fulfill my goals as a father."
Chad Overton
Next Gen Pastor
"Practical"
"Mike’s approach is not ‘theory’— he has a real-world, practical focus. He teaches you to lead your kids from your heart and provides you wisdom by which to do it. Mike’s authentic, skilled teaching will help you become a better dad."
Phil Reynolds
CEO, Reynolds Consulting
Listen to the Father Friend Podcast:
Join me each week as we dive into what it takes to become the kind of dad your kids trust, respect, and actually want to be around. We’ll tackle bold questions and real-life challenges every father faces. This podcast isn’t about dad jokes and BBQ tips — it’s for intentional dads who want to rise above the noise of today’s culture and lead their families with strength, faith, and clarity. New episodes drop every Monday, available wherever you listen to podcasts.
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